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Why LGBTQ Visibility Is So Important

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Reclaim Your Power When Others Judge Your Calling

There’s something surprising that you might experience once you discover your spiritual calling. As you make changes in your life to move you towards your spiritual calling, some people around you may not support you. Worse, they may actively criticize you or say hurtful things behind your back. I call these people the “haters”. Here’s […]

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6 Questions to Help Find Your Calling

I often hear from people who have no idea what their unique calling might be. There are a lot of reasons that we might not know what it is. Sometimes, we have an inkling but we let fear get in the way. I tell my clients to find their calling first and then they can […]

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3 Ways to Answer Your Spiritual Calling

Sometimes the biggest challenge to answering your spiritual calling is figuring out the how of it. Once you know your calling, you have to figure out how it will fit into your life. There are 3 primary ways that people answer their spiritual calling. None of them are better than the others. Which method will […]

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How Calling Differs From Life Purpose

I see a lot of people talking about life purpose these days. Life coaches in particular often talk about life purpose in a very secular way. I’m going to talk about life purpose from a spiritual perspective and then I’ll explain what your unique calling is and how it differs from your life purpose. Your […]

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