5 Common Meditation Myths

When I talk to clients, friends, or students about meditation I often hear various reasons why they haven’t been able to meditate. Most often, the reasons they give are actually common meditation myths or misconceptions.

I thought it might be helpful to go through 5 of the most common myths about meditation and set the record straight.

Meditation Myth #1: You need to empty your mind

The first myth about meditation is that you must empty your mind or stop thinking. There is a lot of literature on meditation about stilling the mind, and I used to find it confusing too. I thought it meant I was supposed to stop thinking at all or somehow silence my inner dialogue.

That’s just not the case. First of all, it’s not possible to completely silence the mind. Stillness, instead, means that you don’t engage with your thoughts. The goal of meditation is to observe your thoughts objectively.

Normally, we might have a stray thought and then engage it. Maybe we start thinking of other things related to that thought. We also attach judgment to our thoughts. This is one of the core triggers for anxiety. We have a thought, which leads to other thoughts, and we judge ourselves for the thoughts. Before we know it, we’re down in a hole of negative thoughts and emotions.

In contrast, when we meditate, we simply observe our thoughts. Try mentally stepping outside of yourself and shrugging off your thoughts. When I was a beginner at meditation, I learned to think, “That’s interesting.” When thoughts would come to my mind, I’d gently nudge my focus back to my breath or mantra.

Meditation Myth #2: You need to sit still

When people think of meditation, the first image that comes to mind is of a Buddhist monk sitting cross-legged in deep meditation. I often hear people say they can’t meditate because they can’t sit still. Well, good news! The idea that you have to sit still to meditate is another common myth about meditation.

Take, for example, Hatha Yoga. Hatha Yoga is a type of meditation in which you practice various physical postures called asana and breathing exercises called pranayama. The goal is to find stillness in the mind and increase our connection with our body. Most styles of yoga involve meditation.

There’s also a practice called walking meditation in which walking becomes a meditative activity. Any repetitive action can be meditative when approached with the right mindset. I’ve seen people use knitting, painting, drawing, sewing, walking, and more as forms of meditation.

Meditation Myth #3: There’s only one correct way to meditate

Another common misconception about meditation is that there’s only one correct way. This often pulls people out of their meditation because they spend too much time thinking about whether or not they are doing it right.

This myth about meditation likely also comes from the image of sitting monks deep in meditation. I already mentioned walking, yoga, and other forms of meditative activity above. There’s also guided meditation, in which someone speaks softly to guide your meditation. There’s creative visualization, in which you use your imagination to picture a tranquil setting. And there’s chanting as meditation.

You might realize by now, that there are hundreds of different ways to meditate. You need to experiment to find the method that works for you.

Meditation Myth #4: You need to spend a lot of time in meditation

I often hear people say that they’re too busy to meditate. When I asked them about that, they told me they could not find 30 minutes or an hour to meditate. That’s because it’s a common misconception about meditation that you need to devote a large block of time to it.

The truth is that any amount of time spent in meditation will benefit you. You can meditate with whatever time you can find. Meditating for 15, 10, or even as little as 5 minutes can still receive great results. Use whatever moments you can find. A few minutes here and there add up to a decent amount of meditation daily.

Meditation Myth #5: It takes years of practice to see any benefits

You don’t need to be a Buddhist monk who has been meditating for 20 years to benefit from meditation but this is a common myth. The benefits of meditation are both immediate and long-term. This just means that some of the benefits you’ll receive immediately after you meditate, no matter how long you’ve been meditating. And, the longer you continue to meditate, the more benefits you’ll get from it.

Don’t let these 5 meditation myths hold you back

As you can see, these 5 common myths about meditation can really hold you back from becoming a regular meditator yourself. Fortunately, these are all misconceptions about meditation, and there isn’t any truth to them. Hopefully, knowing the truth will help you begin to develop a meditation habit.

Did you know that meditation is one of the core tools I believe to be necessary for building a strong spiritual foundation?